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10 Tips On How You Can Set Your Teenager Up For Success

 As a parent, you want your teenager to be successful in life. There are many ways that you can help them reach this goal, but it will take some effort on your part. So how can you set them up for success? 


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Here Are 10 Tips On How You Can Set Them Up For Success:


  1. Set Clear Expectations And Boundaries.

It's important to set expectations early on with your teenager. Explain what is expected of them in terms of school, work, and home life. Be clear about your rules and the consequences for breaking them. This will help your teenager understand what is expected of them and avoid any confusion or surprises down the line.


  1. Encourage Open Communication.

Open communication is key in any relationship, but it's especially important between parents and teenagers. Encourage your teenager to come to you with any questions or concerns they have. Let them know that you're always open to talking about anything that's on their mind.


  1. Help Them Develop A Strong Work Ethic.

One of the best things you can do for your teenager is to help them develop a strong work ethic. Teach them the importance of hard work and perseverance. Help them understand that success comes from putting in the effort.


  1. Encourage Them To Be Independent.

While it's important to set expectations and offer guidance, it's also important to allow your teenager to be independent. Encourage them to make their own decisions and take responsibility for their choices. This will help them develop into responsible adults.

“While it's important to set expectations and offer guidance, it's also important to allow your teenager to be independent. Encourage them to make their own decisions and take responsibility for their choices. This will help them develop into responsible adults.”


So, how can your teen practice being independent? 


  • Allow them to handle their own finances.


  • Encourage them to do things on their own, such as cooking, cleaning, and laundry.


  • Don't hover - give them space to make mistakes and learn from them.


  • Help them find part-time jobs or internships.


  • Suggest a home school curriculum that will help them develop independent thinking skills.


Independency is key to success. It allows your teenager to think for themselves, make their own decisions, and learn from their mistakes.



  1. Teach Them How To Manage Money.

Money management is an important life skill that all teenagers should learn. Teach your teenager how to compare credit, budget and save money. Help them understand the importance of responsible spending.


  1. Encourage Them To Get Involved In Extracurricular Activities.

Extracurricular activities are a great way for teenagers to explore their interests and develop new skills. Encourage your teenager to get involved in activities that interest them. This will help them stay engaged in school and make new friends.


  1. Help Them Develop Strong Social Skills.

Strong social skills are important for teenagers as they navigate through adolescence. Help your teenager develop strong communication and conflict resolution skills. Teach them how to build positive relationships with others.


  1. Promote Healthy Habits.

Encourage your teenager to develop healthy habits such as eating a balanced diet, exercising regularly, having daily devotional time, and getting enough sleep. Help them understand the importance of taking care of their bodies and minds.


  1. Encourage Them To Think Positively.

Teach your teenager the power of positive thinking. Help them understand that they can control their own thoughts and emotions. Encourage them to focus on the positive things in their lives. Remind them of the power of life and death is on their tongue and to keep every thought captive!


  1. Be A Role Model.

As a parent, you are your teenager's biggest role model. Set a good example for them by living a healthy and balanced life. Show them how to handle difficult situations with grace and composure. Let your teenager see the best version of yourself so that they can aspire to be like you. Make sure you model them a true christian life- dont be double minded and act one way here and another there! Show them how to be a disciple of Christ.




** This list is great but always #1 priority is to lead them to the Lord Jesus and helping them build their identity from Jesus! **


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